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Bret Brummitt5/20/25 2:03 PM5 min read

What Your Employees Wish You’d Teach Them (That Isn’t in the Handbook)

For business owners and HR professionals, training often feels like a luxury, something reserved for only the largest companies with the largest budgets. But here’s the truth: your employees want to grow. And more often than not, they aren’t asking for certifications or a wide array of fancy learning platforms. They’re looking for something much simpler, and far more powerful.

They want to communicate better.
They want clearer boundaries.
They want to know they have a future with you.

That kind of development doesn't require an army of corporate trainers or a stack of training manuals. It starts with small, intentional choices that tell your employees: we see you, we hear you, and we want you to succeed. And those choices are often the difference between someone staying or quietly updating their resume.

Let’s take a closer look at the skills employees are quietly hoping you’ll help them build and how even any business can start today.

The Communication Skills That Keep Teams Together

We all know communication matters, but few businesses make space to teach it. According to Pumble’s 2024 workplace report, 51% of knowledge workers say poor communication increases their stress. One in three say it hurts their job satisfaction or professional confidence.

That’s not just a soft skill issue. That’s a retention issue.

Even a 30-minute team session on how to give feedback, ask clarifying questions, or speak up in meetings can build trust and reduce friction. It can also model a more open culture, especially for newer employees still finding their voice.

Tip: Try rotating a simple “team communication tip of the month” at your next staff meeting. You don’t need a course. You just need to start the conversation.

Bonus idea: Assign a different team member each month to share a quick tip or example of a communication win or challenge. It builds buy-in and signals that everyone has something to teach.

 

Boundary-Setting Is a Survival Skill (Not a Perk)

Most business teams wear a lot of hats. But when roles and hours blur too much, employees burn out. Even the loyal ones.

In fact, Terryberry reports that:

  • Only 40% of employees say their time off is respected.
  • Less than a third feel encouraged by leadership to prioritize their mental health.

That’s a problem. Especially when good people don’t want to disappoint you, so they say yes to everything.

Training your team to set (and respect) boundaries doesn’t mean lowering standards. It means creating a workplace where people can do great work without running on fumes. And it starts with small practices, like checking in before assigning last-minute tasks or asking, “Is this timeline realistic for you?”

Tip: Lead by example. Encourage your team to actually use their time off and talk openly about how you protect your own work-life balance.

Bonus idea: Build a “boundary norms” list with your team. This might include things like not expecting responses after hours or giving 48-hour notice before adding something new to a plate. It doesn’t have to be rigid; it just has to be clear.

 

Growth Doesn’t Require Promotions, Just Possibility


One of the biggest myths in business leadership is that growth only matters when you have a ladder to climb. But even without new titles or departments, people still want to feel like they’re going somewhere.

And they’ll leave if they don’t.

study by Axonify found that 92% of employees say well-planned training directly improves their engagement. When people feel like they’re learning, they stay curious, and they stay longer.

So, what counts as training in a small business?

  • Shadowing someone on another team.
  • Getting time to take a free online course.
  • Being asked to lead a new project, even just once.

Tip: Ask each employee, “What’s one thing you wish you knew more about in your role?” Then build a simple plan to explore that together.

Real-world example: One small business owner we know created “stretch weeks,” where an employee can take a few hours each week to explore a new skill or function, even if it’s outside their role. It cost nothing, but team morale and cross-training went up fast.

 

Training Doesn’t Have to Be a Program. It Can Be a Practice.


You don’t need a Chief Learning Officer to help your people grow. You just need a commitment to help them do their best work and a few moments each month to talk about how that happens.

Training doesn’t always come in the form of an all-hands workshop. Sometimes, it’s a five-minute conversation about how to handle a tricky customer interaction. Or a quick Slack message asking, “Want to sit in on this meeting with me so you can learn how it works?”

At Generous Benefits, we’ve seen firsthand how training and benefits go hand in hand. When employees understand how to use their benefits, how to ask for support, and how to grow inside their roles, everything improves, from morale to retention.

We believe training isn’t a separate function. It’s part of the culture. And culture is something small businesses can lead on, no matter their size. And, if you are looking for a system to help you deliver training consistently, Generous Benefits can help you get set up on the Mineral Learning System, a simple, affordable platform that gives your team access to expert-led courses and HR resources without the heavy lift.

 

Final Thought: Grow the People Who Grow Your Business

The next time you think about training, don’t think modules. Think moments.

Moments to ask questions.
Moments to model healthy behavior.
Moments to help someone see what’s possible.

That’s the kind of development your employees are waiting for. And you don’t need a big budget to get started, just a bit of intentionality and care.

If you're building a business that values connection, learning, and community Generous Benefits is here to help you support the people who make that possible. Reach out today to explore how we can grow together.

 


 

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Bret Brummitt

In 2019, Bret launched Generous Benefits, leveraging 20 years of experience in Employee Benefits. His mission is to transform communities through innovative benefits solutions. Bret envisions benefits beyond traditional offerings, aiming for a lasting impact by stretching, tailoring, and curating packages. He coaches insurance agencies with Q4intelligence, actively participating in communities like Health Rosetta and the Free Market Medical Association. Based in Austin, he balances his professional pursuits with running alongside Gilbert's Gazelles and playing baseball with the Austin Blue Jays.

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